Sex, Sexuality and being Asexual

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No matter what sexuality you are, embrace it and each others. Accept people for who they are, including their sexuality, and love them as if you would love yourself. This is the powerful message I share in this video, and this was on my www.youtube.com/quirkybooksTV channel, even before I started my www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife channel, later that same year, in 2015.

I have both asexual and highly sexual heterosexual friends. I respect people for who they are, and despite not wanting sex again in my life for myself, I see nothing wrong with sexuals enjoying sex if it’s consensual and no one is getting hurt in the process. However, I do feel that asexual love is a far more pure love in the sense that genitals are not needed to be involved. Do you agree?

It you want to receive life hacks on how to live your best life, be your best self, and live your purpose, hit the subscribe button on my www.youtube.com/quirkybooksTV channel now! And if you are not already subscribed to my Asexualise channel, please do so now, here www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife Don’t forget to hit that bell icon so you get notified of every time I go live or post a new video. I do a daily live stream show where you can ask me anything you like about asexuality, in the live chat.

Until next time, stay ace

Sandra xx

I’m back online! But it’s not that simple!

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It’s Friday 22nd March 2019, and I’m back online! But it’s not that simple!

Asexualise.com was offline for some time due to being hacked, to protect your online safety while I got the issue fixed. I deleted all infected files and used an old site backup from last year, which over-rides the current site and in the process, consequently deleted all the blog posts from November 5th inclusive.

One of my new friends recently said, that he believes in miracles as he experiences them every day. And I was thrilled to see another version of my site – the December version, on my IPad. So I am able to re-type up, and re-publish, 6 of those previous posts! (I still wish I had the others.) The beauty of this, is if you missed any, you will be able to catch up with them in close succession. So I best get typing them up. Good job I love write and blog! I hope you enjoy the new theme and look of this Asexualise.com site? Please let me know what you think of it in the comments below!

Until next time, stay ace.

Sandra xx

 

New Look Asexualise.com Blog Site!

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You may have noticed this Asexualise site has a new look? Asexualise has a spanking new ace look! Shop for Asexualise Merchandise ASEXUALISE ASEXUAL MERCHANDISE, browse asexual resources and learn more about asexuality, right here on Asexualise.com

Unfortunately I had to remove the shop from this site as it kept causing technical difficulties and stopped it from working properly. I could barely access the blog in the admin section, (behind-the-scenes), to write a new post! Hence why this is the first post since Christmas! So I have cleaned out the old theme and got a new one and a fresh new look! I hope you like it?

Let me know what you think in the comments below and of any other features or blog articles you would like to see!

Until next time, stay ace

Sandra xx

Happy Christmas! Behind the scenes of Sandra’s Grotto!

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Happy Christmas and Happy Acemas. I hope you enjoy this behind the scenes video of what I like to call Sandra’s Grotto! Wishing you the most wonderful Christmas and the most amazing 2018! Lots of love and hugs xx

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Can An Asexual Still Be Sexy?

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Can An Asexual Still Be Sexy? This is a great question. There are many myths and stereotypes about asexuality, and just because someone is asexual, does not meant to say that someone cannot find you sexy. Sexy is a matter of perception by the person experiencing that feeling.

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Asexuals Live and Love Without Sex! And that is Liberating!

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Asexuals can live without sex and love without sex, and in a world that is so sex focused, that can be tough. It can also be liberating. I haven’t had sex since 2011 and I am so grateful and thankful for that. I didn’t like doing that, it hurt, and because I don’t need it or want it, I would have preferred to just kiss.

It is freeing to know that there are others out there who are just like me, who can live and love without sex. Check out these articles about asexuals who can live and love without sex.

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2014/nov/29/asexual-preference-sexuality

http://welkermedia.com/daily/david-jay-aven-asexuality+

Be Your Own Best Friend!

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Over Christmas it is important to look after you! Christmas can be a busy time with family and friends but you must remember to look after yourself too!

  • Buy yourself a Christmas gift – at least that way you know you are going to get something you like!
  • Write in a diary or journal your thoughts and feelings at the end of each day and celebrate your successes, however big or very small.
  • Take time to relax with a hot bath or shower, play some favourite music or watch a movie.
  • Connect with people who make you feel great and are going to help you to set important goals for 2017 and help you to achieve them.

If Christmas is a lonely time for you and you are feeling depressed, check out how you can avoid feeling this way in my free newsletter  http://eepurl.com/cuTRTj and don’t forget to subscribe!

I am still working hard to finish my Asexual Perspectives book to publish it asap. I am currently writing the final part of it. I will let you know when it has been published.

I have extended the Black Friday prices for the pre-January sale so you can still grab yourself a bargain!

Happy Christmas.

Sandra

Stay ace xx