Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook is available to buy on Barnes & Noble. You can get this book here https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/fibromyalgia-self-help-handbook-sandra-bellamy/1134050777?ean=9780995599369
So why is a book about Fibromyalgia relevant to asexuals?
I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia in 2012, and I discovered I am asexual in 2014. I joined some fibro groups on Facebook, which is mostly made up of women, and discovered that many women with fibromyalgia have pain that either prevents them from having sex, or it makes sex very painful for them. With this is mind, the harsh truth is many women’s partners/husbands leave them because they can’t live without sex. It’s sad, but it really happens, after a lot of years of marriage in some cases. It’s horrid, but the truth. In fact only yesterday, in one fibro group I am in, one woman who has been married for years to her husband who is 56 years old, was explaining how she had to go away for bit with her daughter who was relocating and she needed to help her. Her husband agreed she should go and then he cheated with his 24 year old neighbour, whom she and their daughter knows. She said she can’t compete with someone like that. I said he is not worth competing for.
These woman likely don’t know that there are people in the world that can live, love, and be happy, in relationships without sex. So in my Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook, I introduce asexuality to those people, in Chapter 19, and explain there are people who identify as asexual in sexual orientation and this means:
“Essentially they don’t get the need, urge, or want, for partnered sexual intercourse, so they don’t have to have sex, to have a long lasting, loving, healthy, happy relationship.”
So those with fibromyalgia know it’s possible to get someone for a relationship who won’t leave them if they can’t have sex. This helps both those with Fibromyalgia and those who are asexual. Because it creates more relationship possibilities for both, and helps introduce asexuality to a larger number of people. I’m known as ACE (asexual) Fibro Girl.
This autobiographical self-help book, is really a personal and professional development book in disguise and is basically everything I have learnt in my life since 2012, to have less pain, more energy, and feel happier, in life. Most of which applies to you, without having fibromyalgia, it shows you how to improve your quality of life overall. It helps reduces pain in 25 aspects of your life, many of which are relevant to you whether you have fibromyalgia of not.
Do you have Depression or Anxiety? 😢 My autobiographical Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook can help you with that too. This book is a must-have read for how to overcome depression and decrease anxiety, even if you don’t have fibro, because in this book I show you exactly how to overcome depression, by giving you the antidotes to it, and how to reduce your anxiety, and the principles for this are the same even if you don’t have fibromyalgia. You will learn lots of useful ways to manage your mental health better.
If you relate to any of these, then I encourage you to go get your copy here, now:
Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook is available to buy on Barnes & Noble. You can get this book here https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/fibromyalgia-self-help-handbook-sandra-bellamy/1134050777?ean=9780995599369
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Until next time, stay ACE.
Sandra xx