There are a number of things you can do to repel unwanted advances, some are obvious and some are more subtle!! Here are a few things you can try to repel unwanted advances!!:
- In a polite way – tell them to
shove their sex up their back side– You are not interested in having sex with anyone no matter how ‘sexy’, ‘hot’ or ‘gorgeous’ they are. Or if you are a demisexual, tell them – ‘You will have to wait! And wait! And wait! – But the best things come to the who wait!” - Tell people you are asexual, not a sexual, within the first few minutes of speaking to the person who has shown a remote interest in you. ( I do this, sometimes even before they show an interest in me, because it saves me a lot of hassle and handles objections before they have time to raise them.)
- Wear a Asexualise Asexual T Shirt like this one! It gets the message across without saying anything!
- Say no! I am not interested!
- Promote Aven so they can understand asexuality better and know there are thousands like us.
- Talk so much about asexuality that they get bored and give up on persuading you otherwise.
- Be confident in what you are saying and adamant in what you want.
- Block, de-friend, and disconnect from them.