Many asexuals – especially those who are an aromantic asexual, so they lack both romantic and sexual attraction – don’t desire a relationship and prefer to be single.
Other asexuals are happy being single but hope to find a partner for a relationship without sex.
Some asexuals are happy to be single or in a relationship.
And some asexuals don’t like being single at all.
Whichever you resonate with the most, I want you to know, there is no shame in being single and staying single. Much of society is geared towards you finding a partner, getting married, having kids, and living happily ever after – and that’s why there are so many divorces, separations and split ups! It’s better to be single and happy to be single, than be with the wrong person.
So the photos above are a reminded of the 12 reasons why it’s good to be single. There are many more, especially if you don’t want marriage or kids.
In case you scrolled down this post super fast and missed all of those 12 reasons why it’s good to be single, here they are again.
Being single means the outlook’s bright.
Being single means you have your own adventures in life.
Being single means you create your own joy in your life.
Being single means you can be in your own world.
Being single means you can prevent tears.
Being single is self-love in action.
Being single means you can shower yourself with love.
Being single is freeing.
When you’re single you hold your own life in your hands.
Being single means even the sky can’t stop you.
Being single means you can make yourself smile.
Being single means you create your own sunshine in your life.
This list of 12 benefits of being single, is not exhaustive. Why do you like most about being single? Comment below, or hit me up in the chat bubble and tell me!
I have noticed that a lot of asexuals feel alone and are lonely. I do understand this, especially as I am an extrovert asexual and like to get out and about and be around people about every 3 days.
I don’t usually feel lonely these days, but it can be isolating if I have not got out of my flat in a while! I like going out with friends and I am a social creature by nature, but I also have some introvert tendencies, in the sense that I enjoy my own company, like to switch off from the outside world now and then to explore and progress my creative pursuits and passions, and I also do a lot of solo work at home, building websites, writing blog posts, etc! Having said that, in-between doing my work, sometimes I will send an email reply to someone or reach out to someone via email, and I will often watch videos about my passions, which means I am still connected to people outside my home!
There are some huge benefits to being alone – I like to call it “being on my own and enjoying my own company”. The video above, has 10 reasons why it is good to be alone! Please watch it and let me know if you agree?
These are just 5 benefits of single life and being single, I can think of many more!! What others would you like me to add? Please comment below!
International Celebrate Being Single Day is a day I founded On February 14th, in 2015, so that no single person has to feel alone ever again on Valentine’s Day, instead, they can celebrate it as they special day! So how are you celebrating today?
Today I am out on a self-date to celebrate being single on #ICBSDAY! #ICBSD (International Celebrate Being Single Day – Feb 14th!), I am going to the cinema and for a meal! And I will be even more loved up with myself than usual, as a hyper-romantic, heteroromantic, asexual!
If you are looking for a fab self-love present, I recently designed this beautiful Asexual Pride Hearts Short Sleeve T-Shirt, it also comes as an Asexual Pride Hearts Long Sleeve T-Shirt and as an Asexual Pride Hearts Sweatshirt.
I am in Bristol later today to celebrate being single – going to the zoo and for a meal and to the cinema – which is what I did last year as shown in this video.
International Celebrate Being Single Day – Feb 14th.
International Celebrate Being Single Day is just around the corner (Feb 14th), and having founded this special day for singles to celebrate being single, you may be asking yourself, just what is so great about being single.
Since being predominantly single from November 5th, 2011, I began to challenge my mind about the way it thinks about being in a relationship and being single. I was in relationships with guys who were no good for me since 15 years of age – until 2011 – about 19 years of my life! With the largest period of being single in that time, just 6 months! 2 relationships I had were long term (not good for me) and lasted years. I wasn’t a happy person back then and had low self-esteem. I did not like being on my own because I felt alone and very lonely, I liked to be needed, wanted and loved, and felt I wanted someone there for me 24/7 as life would be boring on my own. I am also a very romantic person.
It is fine to want to be needed, wanted and loved – but what I have discovered is that you need to get these 3 things from yourself first and foremost; to be at one with your own soul – then you will you be happy and fulfilled as a single person and less likely to get into a relationship that is no good for you because you will not ‘need’ to be in a relationship. In fact, you may fill your own life with so much joy and happiness that being in a relationship no longer appeals to you. Either way, you will have unleashed your power of one and be on your way to being a super successful single sensation.
7 STEPS HOW TO BECOME HAPPY BEING SINGLE
Step 1. You need to take stock of your life and realise that you have a problem being single and find out why that is.
Step 2. You need to be willing to have an open mind and accept you need to change in this respect.
Step 3. If you have been in relationships for most of your life, you need to give yourself some time to yourself and vow to do all you can to stay single for a set period of time – mine was a year; so I could have time to stop ‘needing’ someone. If on the other hand you have been single all your life and would like to be in a relationship but don’t know how to go about it, then you have some work to do on yourself to ensure you can be single and be happy – as well as work to do on your dating and relationship skills. You can still enjoy dating as a single person and it is good to see what is on offer from a variety of sources, rather than thinking one person is the only choice you have!
Step 4.You need to explore and find things to build your confidence and self-esteem, as well as discover ways to help you to be happy being single. This could include learning from books, articles, training courses, magazines, blogs, videos, audio books and podcasts, or through coaching and/or being mentored.
Step 5. You need to decide what ways you learn best – visual, auditory (listen), verbal, written, – so you can pick which learning method is best for you and implement it. If you don’t know which suits you best, try each out until you find which works best for you. Being happy to be single is a skill you need to master and maintain and you need to recognise this and accept it.
Step 6. Take massive action. You need to implement what you have learned, if you are not prepared to do this then you will stay stuck being single and unhappy – everyone has a choice regardless of their circumstances. If you have no money there is free to watch YouTube videos, blog posts and online articles to read. There is no excuse for not changing your life!
Step 7. Evaluate and monitor your progress via each learning method. If something doesn’t work, then try something else until you can honestly say you are happy being single.
For those of you who follow me on Twitter, you may have seen my www.Twitter.com/quirkycoaching profile and thought, just what is #powerofone. Power Of One is a powerful online training and coaching programme that I am creating, to show you, just how to be single and be happy being single.
How are you celebrating being single on Feb 14th – International Celebrate Being Single Day?
Please add #ICBSD to any posts and media you post online to show how proud you are to celebrate International Celebrate Being Single Day!!
What struggles do you have being single and what help would you like to overcome them?
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