What is the hardest part of writing a book? BEHIND THE SCENES PART ONE. What is the hardest part of writing a book? Special Edition Video Series. In this video series I give you a behind the scenes look at what it is really like to be a writer and author. Part Two, in the next blog post, shows more of the making of the book and my daily routine.
UPDATE: This book is out now in both digital Kindle format as well as paperback here https://amzn.to/2wsO8Oi
Over Christmas it is important to look after you! Christmas can be a busy time with family and friends but you must remember to look after yourself too!
If Christmas is a lonely time for you and you are feeling depressed, check out how you can avoid feeling this way in my free newsletter http://eepurl.com/cuTRTj and don’t forget to subscribe!
I am still working hard to finish my Asexual Perspectives book to publish it asap. I am currently writing the final part of it. I will let you know when it has been published.
I have extended the Black Friday prices for the pre-January sale so you can still grab yourself a bargain!
Happy Christmas.
Sandra
Stay ace xx
Hi, I am in the National Press! “Confessions of an asexual cougar businesswoman “repulsed” by sex but dreams of teen romance.” In the Mirror Newspaper; National Press Newspaper. This national press coverage is huge for asexuality and the UK asexual dating scene. Please share with as many people as possible to raise awareness. Special Edition Episode.
View article here http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/confessions-cougar-repulsed-sex-dreams-9456045
Would love to know what you think of this article?
Stay ace
Sandra
Does Donald Trump acknowledge and recognise asexuality and what it is?
Acccording to this Washington Post article he does!! See the excerpt from his own book under the subtitle ‘Flirting’!
INTERNATIONAL CELEBRATE BEING SINGLE DAY DOCUMENTARY: BRISTOL ZOO. This video has taken me over 6 months to edit and put together. In this documentary, you will be with me every step of the way, from walking to the train station, to getting a tour of Bristol zoo, eating a meal and going to the cinema. Make sure you watch all of the first part where I tell you why it is so good to be single and how amazing you are. If a mooch around the zoo is not so much your thing, the more speedy bits are after 14.00.
#lgbtqia #lgbt #ace #aisforasexual #acetuesday pic.twitter.com/k5RkDFlIEW
— Pride matters (@Mattersofpride) November 1, 2016
If Sex Without Love Exists, Why Can’t People See That Love Without Sex Also Exists?
LOVE IS NOT THE SAME AS SEX!
Sex is just one physical expression of love that some people like to do and some do not like to do. Some people experience sexual desire; having a need for sex itself, while others do not feel the need for much physical contact in a relationship – such as some aromantics. As I am a hyper-romantic, I like to express love through lots of passionate kissing, cuddling and holding hands, but also through an intelligent, emotional, romantic, spiritual and creative connection. Love is not sex and sex is not love. Love can exist without sex as they are two separate things than can be intertwined or not.
Just to tell you a little bit more about me, besides being a heteroromantic, Grey A, Asexual (Younger) Cougar who does not like sex but just kissing and a hyper-romantic too – I am a business girl and entrepreneur and run the Asexual Business, Gurus and Entrepreneurs Group on Facebook http://www.facebook.com/groups/acebusiness for aces who are into business, including creativity and the arts.
Unlike most aces, I am an extrovert – with some introvert tendencies because I spend a lot of time working online on my businesses on my own in the evenings. And because asexuality became such a huge part of my life since discovering I as am asexual in 2014, with all the asexual groups I am in, the couple of asexual dating sites I am on and the amount of aces I was connected to and the amount of time I was spending online regarding asexuality I had to make a big decision, to either give up all the asexuality stuff because I was meant to be helping redundant workers at that time and doing other stuff, or to go all out spreading awareness of asexuality on a global scale by creating a brand about asexuality called Asexualise and make asexuality part of my World Of Quirky business in effect.
This was super risky to all the other things I do – like the social media training, the mentoring etc, but I decided it was too bigger cause that I could not let it go and so I have had to push through my personal fears in order to be an Ambassador for Asexuality. This means that I have to talk about asexuality to strangers and educate them. It means I have to talk about personal and intimate things in order to help other aces through my YouTube channel which the whole world can see and it also means facing past relationship traumas to learn how to help other aces and this weekend – Sat and Sunday, I will be in London for a major two day seminar,that is back-to-back entrepreneur speakers and 12 hour days, so I will not be on here much because I am also in London on Monday too and going on a sleeper train throughout Friday night.
The event is being headlined by World Leading Coach Tony Robbins who changed my life in the same sort of event in 2012. And I will be spreading awareness of asexuality to other entrepreneurs and business people who I meet at the event and will be in the audience. I have done this before last year with a few people but I never had business cards for it and now I do – 100 cards arrived a short time ago. Yes, I still get a little fearful and it is a bit scary as in talking to strangers about the fact I don’t like sex – and these are entrepreneurs, but I think unless we can reach more of the world thought leaders and influences we are not going to make as much difference and it is going to keep being harder for us to find that special someone. So that is what I am doing.
Happy Asexual Awareness Week for next week; 23rd-29th of October.
Stay Ace
Sandra xx
Unfortunately, not everyone on Asexual Dating sites and within the asexual community are honest!
I know from both personal experience and through those experiences of my ace friends that some guys claiming to be asexual are actually not and they are heterosexual and pretending to be ace! How do I know this? Because some have admitted it to me, others have admitted it to other aces I know and other’s show it by their words or actions – including sending an unwanted picture of their penis! This is disgusting and something I wish to highlight to discourage it. It makes life more difficult for those who are ace and want genuine and honest relationships, be that a romantic relationship, platonic relationship, or friendship.
In this video I explain more about asexual scammers!
For my asexual friends – ‘The Alpha and His Ace’ features an Asexual character and is currently free on Amazon Kindle – but be quick and get this now as I have no idea when this offer started and ends, but it will not be free for more than 5 days and could end today!!
Here is the Amazon.com link: http://amzn.to/2bxKaep
Click this link for the UK site: http://amzn.to/2aSf8hg
I was so happy to read about the company I am employed by, not only supporting LGBT+ Pride, but also celebrating by marching alongside it. Although I am not a lesbian and firmly a heteroromantic, I still have lesbian and gay friends. I believe their support of it, is why most of my work colleagues have been supportive and accepting of my asexuality. I am loud and proud where asexuality is concerned.
Have You Got Pride in your work? Is your asexuality supported and accepted in your place of work? I would love to read your views. Please comment below!
