Can You Help Me? Love You To Be Part Of This!

Love you to be part of this

It’s been over 7 years now, since I first started my Asexualise My Asexual Life Channel and boy how this channel has grown in viewership over the years – over 433,000 views and counting.

 

But I still feel there is so much more I can do.

When I originally started this channel in October 2015 to help other asexuals, I was kinda nervous and felt strange talking about intimate topics with strangers. Now it’s like being in a comfy arm chair, among a community of like-minded souls. I feel like it’s my hangout, where I get to inform, educate, entertain, and literally share multiple aspects of my own asexual life journey, and experience, to truly ace your own life, in terms of dating, relationships, friendships, and help to grow you in self-love, confidence, and self-esteem.

You can view and subscribe to my Asexualise channel here https://www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife

But that’s not all…

You see I also shared something else when I got started out, and that was why I started the channel – to raise awareness of asexuality, to help asexuals be comfortable and confident with their asexuality, and to educate others. And I spoke about how I can help raise awareness of asexuality on a more global scale, as I’m also in the entrepreneur space since 2012, and if I can get entrepreneurs who are the thought leaders of the world, and who are often the people with the loudest voices in the world, to know about asexuality and accept it, then it’s going to mean I can fulfil my life mission; of getting asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation throughout the globe, in it’s own right, so no asexual has to live in fear ever again.

With that in mind, I created another channel, but this one is for entrepreneurs, authors, and creatives, called Make Money Make Cash, and I recently started asking other entrepreneurs and authors to be interviewed by me, so they can explain how they make money doing what they love, so you can do the same.

On that channel I’m known as The Asexual Entrepreneur to help raise more awareness of asexuality on a global scale and I would really appreciate your support.

Here is that channel https://www.youtube.com/@makemoneymakecash and I would love to get your support by asking you to subscribe to it please? If you feel it may be at all of any interest.

I’m still editing my first interview with a fascinating person, who is an entrepreneur and author, and a licensed therapist who specialises in helping people with their relationships and addictions. He knew he wanted to help people since he was 7 or 8 years old and has some fascinating stories to share. But in the meantime there are plenty of videos on that channel about how to sell your pre-loved items for quick cash, such as on eBay, Facebook Marketplace and Vinted. Plus, if you like to write like I do, there are tips and insights into book publishing with Amazon and what mistakes to avoid. So if any of this resonates with you or interests you, or you would just like to support me in raising more awareness of asexuality, you can get started by subscribing here https://www.youtube.com/@makemoneymakecash

I still need more subs to get that channel to 100 so I can get the personalised URL on that one, and help raise more awareness of asexuality as The Asexual Entrepreneur. II did recently acquire the YouTube handle for it, which I am super happy about.

Please help me to help more asexuals by watching the video about it on my Asexualise channel here https://youtu.be/VgxAov9kc9I and clicking through the link here https://www.youtube.com/@makemoneymakecash to subscribe to that channel.

I will be publishing my first interview on there shortly, so it would mean the world to me to get that channel to 100 subs before it goes live to the world.

I think you will also find that channel very insightful. Would you be able to subscribe please? I would really appreciate it.

Enjoy checking it out, until next time, stay ACE,

Sandra xx

What is it really like for an asexual who does not have sex? 20 benefits of no sex for an asexual!

What is it really like for an asexual who does not have sex?

I recently published this video about not missing out because I have had no sex since 2011, and I still say the same thing as I did in the video below, in 2015, that it feels fantastic – to not have sex!

These are some of the other benefits of no sex for me!

  1. No worries about getting pregnant.
  2. I don’t have to take the contraceptive pill that has side effects and can make you feel ill.
  3. No worries about STDs and no need to be tested for that.
  4. Less anxiety, worry, and stress, in general.
  5. No feeling raw and upset after sex.
  6. No getting bored from having sex with a guy who does no foreplay. (Foreplay is fine and can be enjoyable with the right person in a serious committed relationship, sex is boring with most guys, or really not worth it, or I would rather be doing something else.)
  7. Less chance of being with a guy who will pounce on me for sex.
  8. No expectations of sex means I can relax and chill more.
  9. No forcing myself to do something that does not feel good to me and I am not comfortable doing.
  10. A sense of relief that I don’t have to be something I am not.
  11. No having to please a partner in that way if I had one.
  12. No pain from doing that.
  13. I can relax around asexual guys.
  14. I can make lots of asexual friends as I am not focused on getting a sexual boyfriend and having to have sex.
  15. I can avoid getting into relationships with sexual guys that are no good for me.
  16. I have a chance of finding real and true love without sex.
  17. I can kiss without sex, which is far more pleasurable for me.
  18. I have more time to focus on my career and do other activities that are worthwhile and can be life transforming.
  19. It’s liberating to be free from something that goes against ones own soul and natural being/personality.
  20. I feel happier. I feel I am more me, and can live my life my way without being tied to convention.

As you can see from my list of 20 benefits of no sex for an asexual, there are a ton of reasons why I am so happy I don’t have sex. What’s yours?

Until next time, stay ace! Sandra xx

What Is Clothes Attraction?

What Is Clothes Attraction? You have probably heard of most types of attractions, but have you ever heard of clothes attraction? Clothes attraction is when you get attracted to a person because of particular clothes they wear or you find them more attractive because of specific clothes they wear. I like the street look on a guy and the leather jacket biker look – like the character Danny Zuko in Grease – I find both looks very asexy. What about you? What are your thoughts on this? Watch the video to find out more!

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I created my Asexualise channel, called Asexualise My Asexual Life, to Empower And Enhance Your Asexual Life. It is my mission to give asexuals a voice in the world; to empower asexuals to be comfortable and confident with their asexuality; and to give insight into my colourful asexual life, to enable others to better understand their own and to know they are not alone. I want to educate others about asexuality, so that in the future, all asexuals can live in society happily.