Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories Is A Best Seller – Best Selling Asexual Book By Asexual Author Sandra Bellamy

Posted on August 25, 2023 by Asexualise

On 08/08/2023 a long-awaited dream came true for me – I became a best selling author of – Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life, and Sex, ACElebration of Asexual Diversity book – which was first published in Kindle format in January 2017, and the paperback version was published later in July 2017. Get your copy here https://amzn.to/44j4rdq

It’s been my dream since starting my www.quirkybooks.wordpress.com blog in 2010, way before I started helping asexuals in 2015, to have my own book publishing imprint called Quirky Books and to be a best selling author – I’m pleased to say I’ve now achieved both. But the fact I’ve done it while helping asexuals, puts the icing firmly on the cake and makes it the cherry on the top. Combining my two greatest life passions, writing non-fiction books that change live from pain to gain and helping asexuals – feels incredibly amazing and euphoric.

I honestly believe I was put on this earth this time around (I think I’ve been here before in a past life) to help asexuals. I believe God/Universe put me here to help asexuals with love, life, confidence, dating and relationships, so you can truly ACE your life, and to fulfil my life mission – of getting asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe, so no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again. Whilever I’m alive I will try my utmost to achieve this, and my books will live on long after I’ve gone – as my lasting legacy to still help save and change lives for future generations to come.

On 08/08/2023 – Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life, and Sex, ACElebration of Asexual Diversity book hit the Best Seller list in Human Sexuality – #51. This was an incredible achievement, not just for me personally in terms of achieving my dream, but because it was in a highly competitive category to be a best seller in, as most books in it, are traditional-style sex books, so it’s a huge achievement for an asexual book, and therefore asexuality – which is a sexual orientation based on the lack of sexual attraction – in case you’re not asexual, never heard of asexuality before, or confused.

It took me 7 years to become a registered publisher in the UK under Quirky Books. Which I achieved in 2017, and it was a dream come true for me.

And now it’s taken 6 years for Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, under that imprint, to become a best seller – as I published that in 2017 and now it’s 2023. So 6 years later I got my dream.

Yesterday I was updating my social media – and I shared this achievement on my LinkedIn profile…

And my friend saw it and posted this lovely post and kind words on LinkedIn about my Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories book – they recommended it as a #MustRead

It’s lovely when someone understands the true purpose and meaning behind your literacy work. Get your copy here https://amzn.to/44j4rdq

See the post here

So however long it takes…

However many sleepless nights…

Late nights…

However many years…

YOU CAN ACHIEVE YOUR DREAMS.

I’m so thankful to have achieved all these dreams both for me and asexuals / asexuality.

What’s next for me and asexuality???

On 23rd October 2023, I’m going to be speaking live at Oxford University for bLU Talks and I’ve already been given a lot of prep I need to do for that. I’m co-authoring a bLU Talks books, the Foreword of which is by Ken Honda from Mind Valley, and I just revised the edits of my chapter a couple of days ago for that. Both of these are inclusive of asexuality. I will be using the chapter I wrote for that book, as my foundation for my Oxford talk, that is called 9 Steps To Reinvent Yourself To Become Your Future Self. It describes how I went from being a deeply lonely, shy, and introverted girl as a child, who was scared to be on social media in 2011 and was shy to talk about sex prior to finding out I’m asexual in 2014 – to what I do now, which is helping asexuals through my www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife channel since 2015, being publicly open about being asexual and about my asexual life – all over social media, and able to talk about sex and masturbation as easily as drinking water. I describe the transformational journey I went on, to become the extroverted, loud, bubbly, talkative person I am today. Without which, I would not be able to give a voice to asexuals and help them. Although my talk is going to be based on my chapter concept in the bLU Talks book – it doesn’t have to be and I can talk about whatever I want – so long as it helps the bLU Talks audience, that is mostly made up of entrepreneurs, creatives, and spiritual people. In case you were wondering, bLU stands for business, life and universe, so the talk needs to be relevant to any of those topics areas and suitable for their audience. They spell bLU with a lower case b for their branding – in case you thought it should be capitalised.

I also have a virtual stage talk I will be doing for bLU Talks in the future and I’ve completed the first stage of an initial application to a TedX UK event next year, to do a talk about asexuality – the organiser will have a Zoom call with me in January / February 2024, to explain how the process works from that initial application.

So I still have lots to achieve… and tons more to do.

Plus, I’m still finishing the final edits of my Asexual Guide To Sex book – a book I’ve been working on for over 4 years now.

AND…. All of this goes towards achieving my life mission of getting asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe, so no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again.

I’ve also been given 2 High Five rewards #youtubehighfive by YouTube for my original channel https://www.youtube.com/quirkybooksTV which only has 172 subs as that was my first channel which also goes with my Quirky Books blog and my book publishing imprint, although it’s no longer my main channel, as my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel is, so I haven’t paid much attention to it until I got my first reward – it feels amazing that my hard work is finally being recognised by YouTube, and I’ve been interviewed on top rated podcasts talking about asexuality – more on that in later articles when those interviews go live.

I got 2 cinema codes from YouTube for FREE VUE cinema tickets. One I used to see Gran Turismo – amazing movie, which I did a movie review of on my Asexualise channel – see the video below, and the second one I will be redeeming before 2nd Of September.

Feels good to have been making so much progress this year, especially for asexuals and asexuality – as well as my Quirky Books / writing.

As always, stay ACE

Sandra xx

P.S. If you’ve not already done so, get your own copy of BEST SELLER asexual book – Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life, and Sex, ACElebration of Asexual Diversity here https://amzn.to/44j4rdq

And you can still grab a copy of my autobiographical superhero-style Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook for half price (50% OFF) on Kindle OR £3.00 OFF the paperback here https://amzn.to/3YMKHhj until midnight UK time, on 31st August 2023. So grab a copy of that at the same time, if you want to reduce pain in 25 aspects of your life, have more energy and be happier – most of the methods I teach in this book for managing fibromyalgia (anxiety and depression) can help you even if you don’t have fibro, as they are transferable skills.

Whether you decide to buy the books or not, thanks for your continued support – I appreciate it so much xx

Asexual Perspectives Book – Asexual Perspectives Awareness Month – Discover What is TRULY Means To Be Asexual

Posted on July 21, 2023August 24, 2023 by Asexualise

Asexual Perspectives Book –

Unlock The Myths Of Asexuality, And Bust Through Asexual Stereotypes – Discover What is TRULY Means To Be Asexual

Hi my ACE friend 💥 Go grab a copy of Asexual Perspectives here h ttps://amzn.to/3rBLy7R

In the USA here https://amzn.to/3ruUko2

So what is this book about:

In broad terms Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction, but what does this actually mean for those who identify with this sexual orientation? And what do asexuals really think of love, life and sex?

Whilst all asexuals have one thing in common – the lack of sexual attraction towards a specific person, we are all different in our likes, needs, wants and dislikes. This can make fitting into the asexual spectrum and finding a suitable relationship difficult.

Right now, there are a number of myths about asexuality and stereotypes – even within the asexual community, about what asexuals do and do not like, should and should not do, and these need to be addressed and broken through!

If you identify as asexual do you –

Struggle to have a voice in this sexualized world?
Feel alone?
Misunderstood?
Misplaced?
Broken?
Left out?
Not recognised?
Have no one to relate to?
Find it difficult to find others like you?
Feel like everyone is speaking a foreign language where sex is concerned?

Or are you unsure of your identity and sometimes get confused and you want to know what asexuals really think of Love, Life and Sex, and what experiences they have had or are having; and how they manage their relationships? If so, then look no further than this book. In this book you will discover asexuals who feel just like you.

In this book I will reveal my own asexual perspective and personal story as well as perspectives from 46 asexuals around the globe; dispelling myths and breaking stereotypes; sharing their own personal journey to help you in yours and with a surprising over-riding message!

In this book you will:

•Learn the asexual perspectives of Aromantics; Heteroromantics; Homoromantics; Panromantics; Grey Aces; Demi-sexual; Biromantic; Agender; Transgender; Polyamorous and many more.

•Uncover Asexuals’ deepest fears, concerns and worries about being asexual.

•Find out possible reasons why, in general, society does not accept asexuality as a sexual orientation in its own right and what we can do about this to change the world!

•Discover what asexuals really believe are the differences between sexual attraction, sexual desire and arousal.

•Find out what asexuals really think of nudity; porn; masturbation; BDSM and kinks.

•Discover what it feels like to have sex as an asexual and how to cope with the sexualized world that we live in.

•Find out what asexuals think about living together, about marriage and about having kids.

•Discover what an ideal asexual relationship would look like and whether asexuals believe a relationship with a sexual would be fair or not.

•Uncover the positives about being asexual.

•Find out what advice asexuals would give to a younger version of themselves regarding asexuality and what advice they would give to others who are just discovering they may be asexual.

I feel truly blessed that all interviewees have been willing to open up and share their most intimate moments, thoughts, feelings and emotions with you. What you are about to read is unique, amazing, interesting, sometimes candidly humorous, fascinating and insightful. This is their story, now it’s their time to tell it.

If you have resonated with any of these points and you want to know more, please invest in this book.

Heteroromantic, Author Sandra Bellamy is the founder of www.asexualise.com, with products, resources and services for asexuals. She sees herself as an ambassador for asexuality and is on a mission to get asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe so that no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again. By purchasing this book you will gain a deeper understanding of this often misunderstood sexual orientation and help to spread awareness of asexuality at the same time. We may be small in numbers, but we can still make a huge difference to the world at large and celebrate our diversity.

So go grab yourself a copy here h ttps://amzn.to/3rBLy7R

Stay beautifully ACE.

Sandra xxx

P.S. If you’ve already bought a copy of Asexual Perspectives book but not yet left a review on Amazon – please can you do so here https://amzn.to/3DjT4Hc as it will really help raise asexuality awareness and also help others to make an informed purchasing decision.

Here are some of the reviews received so far:

Andrew 1
5.0 out of 5 stars A very helpful book for understanding asexuality
Reviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on 7 January 2018
Verified Purchase
An essential guide to understanding the great diversity in the asexual community. 47 asexuals covering a representative cross-section of gender, age, and nationality, answer a detailed set of questions about their personal experiences and views. The author also answers the same questions herself and expands on her background. A very helpful guide for anyone wanting to understand the psychology of asexuality and to know where they fit into the asexual spectrum, and very reassuring to the reader to know that many people have had the same experiences as them.

Asten
5.0 out of 5 stars This is a great explanation of asexuality
Reviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on 23 July 2017
Verified Purchase
This is a great explanation of asexuality. As an ace myself I would recommend it to my friends and family in an effort to understand our orientation more. I enjoyed reading Sandra’s story as well as all the other stories in the book. Really inspiring, thanks Sandra xxx

Mr John Molda
5.0 out of 5 stars An excellent read
Reviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on 27 September 2017
Verified Purchase
A very well written book giving you an insight into the lives of various people. As an Ace, i would recommend it to anyone looking to learn about the world of asexuality.

Josie
5.0 out of 5 stars Sandra’s book is absolutely brilliant for people who are Asexual or even for their …
Reviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on 4 February 2018
Sandra’s book is absolutely brilliant for people who are Asexual or even for their friends and family if they want to understand more about what it means and the different sexualities and romantic attractions that can come under the umbrella term of ‘A Spec’. Sandra must have spend a lot of time researching and finding people who identify differently but on the spec. The fact that she has found people of different nationalities and ethnecities gives the book a well rounded and global feel. Definitely recommend it

Amazon Customer
5.0 out of 5 stars Love the Book
Reviewed in the United Kingdom 🇬🇧 on 29 July 2017
The absolute best book on the subject for anyone looking to learn about asexuality from the worldview of real asexuals.

Yuliya
5.0 out of 5 stars Sandra is a great writer
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 15 March 2022
Verified Purchase
Very insightful and a wise book and I would recommend it to anybody who likes to read any type of non-fiction!

Amazon Customer
5.0 out of 5 stars
Candid stories tell the stories in an honest and transparent fashion in every chapter and this book by far captures the spirit of what asexuality actually is better than any other book on the subject
Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on 27 July 2017
Verified Purchase
The most diverse collection of up close and personal in depth looks at real life experiences and world views of asexuals.
Candid stories tell the stories in an honest and transparent fashion in every chapter and this book by far captures the spirit of what asexuality actually is better than any other book on the subject.

You can grab yourself a copy here h ttps://amzn.to/3rBLy7R

Asexual Perspectives Is Available To Buy On Waterstones | Quirky Books Asexual Perspectives In Waterstones

Posted on March 9, 2021March 9, 2021 by Asexualise

If you want to know more about asexuality and have a ton of questions that need answering, I wrote a book called ASEXUAL PERSPECTIVES: 47 ASEXUAL STORIES: LOVE, LIFE and SEX, ACElebration of ASEXUAL DIVERSITY, which is now available on the Waterstones Website here https://www.waterstones.com/book/asexual-perspectives-47-asexual-stories/sandra-bellamy/9780995599338

It took me a year to write it and I interviewed 46 asexuals around the globe for it. What’s good about this book, is it does not just give text book definitions of orientations across the asexual spectrum, it shows you them, through their answers and the personal details they share from their real life stories. It answers most questions you could think of about love, life, and sex, from an asexual point of view, including those you feel afraid to ask!!

Besides being available on the Waterstones Website here https://www.waterstones.com/book/asexual-perspectives-47-asexual-stories/sandra-bellamy/9780995599338 It’s available on Amazon here also: KINDLE http://amzn.to/2l8kppt PAPERBACK: http://amzn.to/2td7y8D (UK) http://amzn.to/2tMXhls PDF https://sellfy.com/quirkybooks.net 💜

Asexual Perspectives Available To Buy On Barnes & Noble | Quirky Books Now On Barnes & Noble

Posted on January 31, 2021 by Asexualise

Asexual Perspectives Available To Buy On Barnes & Noble | Quirky Books Now On Barnes & Noble here https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/asexual-perspectives-sandra-bellamy/1126741637?ean=9780995599338

In 2010, I had a dream that Quirky Books would one day be my own publishing company. And that was the year I started my first ever blog www.quirkybooks.wordpress.com so I could document my journey into print and get the name associated with me from day 1. www.quirkybooks.net was my first ever domain name I bought.

In 2015, I started helping asexuals on my www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife channel.

In 2017, I registered as a UK publisher under the name of Quirky Books. It was something I had waited for, for 7 years of my life, and such a proud moment. It was also the first year I ever published a paperback book under my own under my own publishing imprint of Quirky Books. This book was also my first book I ever published for asexuals, called Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life and Sex, ACElebration Of Asexual Diversity. And now, it’s in major bookstore Barnes & Noble. It’s a proud moment for me personally and for asexuality. Getting more coverage and publicity to those who might have never heard of asexuality, is super important. Here is the link https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/asexual-perspectives-sandra-bellamy/1126741637?ean=9780995599338

You can also buy it from Amazon, here is the link https://amzn.to/2Lk5en3

In this book I reveal my own asexual perspective and my personal story, as well as the real life perspectives from 46 asexuals around the globe who I interviewed for this book. It took me a year to write it and I specifically asked them questions that I got asked in private messages time and time again. In this book you will: