FREE TICKET TO VIRTUAL BE AND BECOME SUMMIT – FEATURING ASEXUALITY – DON’T MISS THIS!

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Sandra Bellamy Speaker At the Be And Become Summit

LESS THAN 10 DAYS TO GO UNTIL THE BE AND BECOME SUMMIT –

DON’T MISS THIS!


Have you got your FREE ticket yet?

Don’t miss out!

With less than 10 days to go until the Be and Become Summit, I don’t want you to miss out on this ACEsome opportunity to hear me speak about asexuality and how to reinvent yourself to become your best future self.

I know some of you wanted to see me speak at Oxford University for bLU Talks about asexuality and how it completely transformed my life and self, but you couldn’t make it because it was an in person meetup event in the UK.

Many of you wished to see that talk but online – well I’m so happy to say, that I’m speaking online at the Be and Become Summit on 14th of December at 6.20PM ET – 11.20PM GMT – so it’s less than 10 days to go now! 

And my talk at the Be and Become Summit, is based on the talk I did at Oxford University.

Some of the types of feedback I got about this talk were:

“Now I understand what asexuality is, whereas I was confused before., but it all became clear”

“I enjoyed your talk.”

“I thought your talk was good and interesting, even though it’s not something I would usually be looking to learn about.”- They also agreed I made it relatable to the audience, most of whom were not asexual – one woman thought she might be asexual after hearing my talk, and getting clarity.

I would love to have more ACE friends and representation in the audience, so please grab yourself a free ticket here, and let’s ACE IT together

https://mailchi.mp/bbconsulting.biz/sandrabellamythe-be-and-become-summit

I’m the first Keynote Speaker, on the first day, Thursday 14th December, of this 2 day event – the Be and Become Virtual Summit, #beandbecomesummit 

So you don’t have to wait a long time to hear me talk and you can come and go as you please.

For clarification, the event in on the 14th and 15th of December, and each day it officially starts at 6pm ET (EASTERN TIME) which is 11 AM GMT UK TIME. My talk on the 14th of December, is at 6.20pm ET (EASTERN TIME) and as I’m in the UK it will be 11.20pm GMT UK TIME, when I’m speaking for 20 minutes, straight after the host has introduced the summit and why she decided to create it.

I’m talking about how to reinvent yourself to become your best future, sharing how asexuality transformed my life in multiple ways, for the better, forever.

The summit, will primarily focus on mental health difficulties and how these affect your life (and business if you have one).  

So it will have a mixture of business people as well as asexuals in the virtual audience.

It’s about how to transform your pain into your personal power, to overcome adversities, in spite of any mental health challenges you might be experiencing, and a number of different speakers besides me, will also be sharing their own personal story of how they went from pain to purpose.

I will be sharing how I went from being a depressed mess with no purpose, to everything I do now to help asexuals, be a bestselling author and publisher, and live my best asexual life.

I will be explaining the multiple self-reinventions i’ve made. especially since discovering i’m asexual in 2014.

I hope you can join me on this summit, which is virtual and free – so there is no travelling involved.  

I would love to have your support, so we can ACE IT together!
Please get your FREE Virtual ticket here https://mailchi.mp/bbconsulting.biz/sandrabellamythe-be-and-become-summit

You don’t have to have a business to join, so if you work for an employer, or you don’t currently work, that’s okay, in the Business Name box of the registration form, just write follower of Sandra Bellamy and interested in the content – or something similar.
You don’t have to be on camera or speak yourself – you can just listen in.

It would mean to world to me to have your support at the summit.

This FREE ticket offer is open to anyone, regardless of where you live.

This event is ACE for spreading awareness and understanding of asexuality to a global audience! The more awareness we have, the more asexuals will discover each other, and the more inclusive our world will be – how ACE is that?

My mission is to get asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe, so that no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again – and the more asexual awareness I can raise, the better.

Never give up on your ACE Dreams!

Sandra xx

FREE VIRTUAL TICKET To LIVE Asexuality Reinvention Talk By Sandra Bellamy Keynote Speaker At Be And Become Summit

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Sandra Bellamy Asexuality Speaker At Be And Become Summit

Keynote Speaker Sandra Bellamy at Be and Become Summit

How would you like my help, for FREE, on how to overcome your ACE challenges in the face of adversity and mental health struggles, to live your best ACE life?

If that sounds like you, please grab yourself a FREE ticket to hear me speak, live, from the comfort of your own home, at the Be and Become Summit on 14th of December 2014 – I would love to help you and to have your support too.

Get your ticket now, here, https://mailchi.mp/bbconsulting.biz/sandrabellamythe-be-and-become-summit

Questions Answered about my Asexuality Reinvention Talk at the Be and Become Summit

✅ I’m the 1st Keynote Speaker on Day 1 of this 2 day event – so you don’t have to wait long to hear me talk 😍

✅ Day 1, is Thursday 14th of December – which is the day I’m speaking 🔥

✅ The event officially starts on 14th Dec at 6pm ET time, which is Eastern Time.

✅ I’m speaking at 6.20pm ET – which is 11.20pm UK GMT Time, for 20 minutes ♥️ 💥 

✅ Your ticket gets you FREE Virtual Summit entry to see all of the speakers talk across both days of the event – (14th and 15th of Dec 2023.)

✅ As this talk is virtual, you do not have any travel costs

✅ Many of the other speakers are my Facebook friends and lovely people – so it’s okay to be your ACEY self with them. ♥️

✅ The host has type 1 bipolar disorder and lived experience of anxiety and depression, so you’ll be in understanding company.

✅ The event has a strong focus on mental health and how to overcome challenges in the face of adversity – so you can be your best ace self.

✅ As I’m known as The Asexual Entrepreneur – the audience for this event will have both asexuals and entrepreneurs / business owners.

✅ You don’t have to have a business to join, so if you work for an employer, that’s okay, in the Business Name box of the registration form, just write follower of Sandra Bellamy and interested in the content – or something similar.

✅ The whole point of summits are to give you new ideas and different perspectives to live your best life. Some people decide to turn a hobby into a profession from listening to some of the inspirational speakers – others are just excited to be learning new things and some people may want to work with one or more of the speakers – who are mostly coaches as well. (There is absolutely no obligation to do this though.) I often have to know someone for a long time before working with them – depending on the situation.

✅ You don’t have to be on camera or speak yourself.

I’m so grateful to all of you in my community, who watch, like, comment and subscribe to my Asexualise videos and to all of you who contribute to my asexual group communities.

It would mean to world to me to have your support at the summit – I’m asked to bring 30 guests with me and I know a couple of those tickets have already gone – which you can see from the Community posts tab here https://www.youtube.com/@AsexualiseMyAsexualLife/community  look at the poll post.

Get your ticket here, now, 

https://mailchi.mp/bbconsulting.biz/sandrabellamythe-be-and-become-summit

This FREE ticket is open to anyone, regardless of where you live.

My talk is about how to reinvent yourself to become your best future self and I’m talking about a number of transformations I’ve had, including how my asexuality made this possible.

At the end of my talk, I will be providing a step-by-step formula for you to follow to reinvent yourself to become your future self.

So if you missed my in person talk at Oxford Uni, for bLU Talks, for ACE Week last month, don’t miss this!

As always, stay ACE

Sandra xx



    Sandra Bellamy Co-Authors A Book With James Redfield And Ken Honda Talking About Asexuality And Self Reinvention

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    Sandra Bellamy Co-Authors with James Redfield And Ken Honda

    Author Sandra Bellamy Co-Authors a bLU Talks book with James Redfield and Ken HondaSandra Bellamy bLU Talks Author On Cover

    I’m thrilled to be a Co-Author with James Redfield – Bestselling Author of The Celestine Prophecy, and Ken Honda – from MindValley, who is also the Author of Happy Money, as well as Corey Poirier (aka. That Speaker Guy) Multiple-Time TEDx Speaker, bLU Talks Founder Co-Author of the Wall Street Journal / USA Today Bestseller, Quitless, Featured in and/or seen on: NBC, ABC, Fox, TEDx, Entrepreneur on Fire, Entrepreneur Magazine, Forbes, Second City, The CW and CBS – of the new BLU Talks Presents, Business Life and The Universe, Vol 11 book…

    Sandra Bellamy with Co-Author Corey Poirier
    Sandra Bellamy at bLU Talks Oxford University, with Co-Author Corey Poirier, (aka. That Speaker Guy) Multiple-Time TEDx Speaker, bLU Talks Founder Co-Author of the Wall Street Journal / USA Today Bestseller, Quitless, Featured in and/or seen on: NBC, ABC, Fox, TEDx, Entrepreneur on Fire, Entrepreneur Magazine, Forbes, Second City, The CW and CBS – of the new BLU Talks Presents, Business Life and The Universe, Vol 11 book… order your copy here https://www.blu-talks-book.com/

    My chapter is titled – 9 Steps To Reinvent Yourself To Become Your Best Future Self – which includes my personal story of the multiple self-reinvention life transformations I’ve made, including since I discovered I’m asexual in sexual orientation in 2014, not heterosexual – which I thought I was for years. SHOCKING – I know!

    If you’ve watched me on my www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife channel over the years, you will know that today, it’s like a reality-TV-style chat show and vlog, so you will have seen some of the transformations I’ve made over the years – unfold in front of your very eyes, but do you know how I made the transformations I’ve made?

    In this bLU Talks Vol 11 book, I give you the exact 9 step process that I use to reinvent myself, so you can also reinvent yourself to become your best future asexual self – over and over again, and become a happier person within yourself as a result.

    So if you’ve been stuck wondering how you can do this for yourself, know it’s not your fault – you can’t know what no one told you, and the answer is available in this book and I’m living proof it works, time and time again. You can order your copy here https://www.blu-talks-book.com/

    Your future asexual self will thank you for it.

    When you think that an Individual pizza from Pizza Hut costs £19.99 here https://www.pizzahut.co.uk/restaurants/blog/the-individual and anyone in the world can get this book for $20 USD or $20CAD, or £19.97 here https://www.blu-talks-book.com/ I hope you would agree, it’s a much more valuable choice – and it’s not going to go down the toilet.

    I’m not the only Author of this Business, Life, and the Universe book. You’re getting valuable insights, help and advice, from all of these awesome specialists in their respective fields, in the order they are in the book:

    Foreword – By James Redfield (Bestselling Author of The Celestine Prophecy)

    On Mentorship – By Ken Honda (Ken Honda – from MindValley, who is also the Author of Happy Money)

    Who Are You When You Are Not What the World Wants You to Be? – By Bhavya Gaur

    Hope, Adaptability, and the Human Experience – By Sangeeta Bhatnagar

    Consciously Co-creating The New Earth through Hulihia – By Lani Kamauu Yamasaki

    Shades of Ethics: A Journey of Trust, Compassion, and Memories – By Sandy Watson

    Victory not Victimhood – By Marquita Waters

    Revamping Pain Relief Beyond Conventional Wisdom – By Ani Papazyan

    The Asexual Entrepreneur: 9 Steps to Reinvent Yourself to Become Your Best Future Self – By Sandra Bellamy (Yes, that’s me)

    Happiness in the Pause – By Laura Lake

    Don’t Judge a Book by its Cover – By Shelley Rogerson

    How to Create an Irresistible Offer for Your Audience and Sell More on Social Media. By Ilona Seddik

    Saving Cassidy – By Tiffany Watson

    Finding Equilibrium: Journey to Pharma-Free Mental Wellness – By Allison Mones

    Finding Joy in the Church Courtyard: Freedom through the Pain of Childlessness – By Beth Rivelli

    It’s Okay to Be Okay! – By Diane Quartly

    The Art of Transformation: Grief and Growth Through Life Changes – By Sarah Willoughby

    How to Shape Your Reality: The Power of Perception – By Masha Maria Pavlova

    Boosting Teen Self-Esteem through Better Connection with Yourself – By Renee Sinning

    The Whisper of the Soul: Unleashing the Confidence to Fulfil your Soul Purpose – By Helen Hardware

    Cracking the Health Code: 3 Keys to Master Your Energy for Optimal Health – By Tiffany Flaten

    Love, Loss & Gratitude – By Reena Alise

    The Power of Human Connection: “Celebrating identity, culture, diversity and building purposeful partnerships” – By Shannan Stella

    What Happened to Her? – By Abigail Teixeira

    Healing Visibility – By Marcela Onyx

    Unbreakable Spirit: A Memoir of Triumph and Transformation – By Debbie Bryan

    ReWrite Reality the Way You Like It – By Carl Hunter & Amy Huentelman

    Parenting Today’s Child with Human Design – By Michaela Gaffen Stone

    SHIFT – By Michelle Wilson

    Beyond Society’s Limits: Discovering Your Unique Path – By Tiffinnea Roberts

    Awakening Inner Strength, Steps to Recovery from Toxic Partners – By Tammeron

    Get your copy today, now, here https://www.blu-talks-book.com/

    As always, stay ACE xx

    Sandra Bellamy Speaks At Oxford University For bLU Talks As The Asexual Entrepreneur – Behind The Scenes Highlights

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    Sandra Bellamy bLU Talks Speaker

    Sandra Bellamy blu Talks Oxford Uni


    Loved speaking at Oxford University, as The Asexual Entrepreneur, on October 23rd 2023, for bLU Talks, about How To Reinvent Yourself To Become Your Best Future Self.

    Watch the behind-the-scenes bLU Talks UK at Oxford University videos below:

    The moment I knew…

    Say no… because we’re here to live our life…

    The below video is a reel of best bits from my Oxford trip:

    Watch the full playlist below, including this ACE asexual introduction:

    My talk was based on my chapter in the new bLU Talks book, of Business Life and The Universe, Vol 11, with James Redfield – Bestselling Author of The Celestine Prophecy, and Ken Honda – from MindValley, who is also the Author of Happy Money, as well as Corey Poirier is That Speaker Guy, Multiple-Time TEDx Speaker, bLU Talks Founder, Co-Author of the Wall Street Journal / USA Today Bestseller, Quitless, Featured in and/or seen on: NBC, ABC, Fox, TEDx, Entrepreneur on Fire, Entrepreneur Magazine, Forbes, Second City, The CW and CBS…

    Business Life and The Universe, Vol 11, – is available to pre-order, now, here https://www.blu-talks-book.com/

    My self-reinvention talk included my personal transformational life journey, especially since I discovered I’m asexual in 2014.

    It also explored, how I went from:

    Introverted, shy, lonely, suicidal, depressed, with no purpose –
    Having social anxiety and feeling lonely, left out in groups…
    Scared to go on social media…
    Touch averse – especially with strangers… (even a tap on the shoulder I didn’t like)…
    Shy to talk about sex…

    To being extroverted, loud, bubbly, talkative –
    Discovering my life purpose… (and living it.)
    Being all over social media…
    ….organising and hosting asexual meetups…
    Being able to hug strangers… and kiss (some) guys in nightclubs I’ve only just met.
    Being able to talk about sex and masturbation, as easily as drinking water… to help asexuals.

    Want to know how I achieved all of these transformations and more?
    .. And learn the 9 steps to reinventing yourself, to whatever best future version of yourself you want to become?

    Read my chapter in the new bLU Talks book, Vol 11, 
    Available to pre-order now at www.blu-talks-book.com

    Get the blueprint to changing your self and your life and become who you truly want to be…
    Your future asexual self will thank you for it, with much love ❤ 😍 and as always, stay ACE xx

    FREE TICKETS – Sandra Bellamy Speaker At Oxford University For bLU Talks Asexuality Life Reinvention For ACE WEEK

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    Sandra-Bellamy Speaker At Oxford University
    Sanda Bellamy Speaker At Oxford Uni

    So happy to be sharing the stage with so many other awesome speakers for bLU Talks at Oxford University, on Monday 23rd of October, as part of a two-day branded talk series, across 23rd and 24th of October.

    In case you didn’t know, I’m Sandra Bellamy – the girl with the microphone in her hand. And that photo was taken when I was a speaker at the UK Asexuality Conference at Westminster University in London.

    Tickets for this event are FREE here  https://www.eventbrite.com/e/blu-talks-2023-oxford-uk-tickets-706357794177 which makes a perfect start to Asexuality Awareness Week, now known as ACE Week, which is from the 22nd-28th October 2023. (I arrive in Oxford on the 22nd of October.)

    Learn how to reinvent yourself to become your best future self, step-by-step.

    I’m going to be sharing the journey I went on to reinvent myself to become my best future self, which my discovery of being asexual and my asexuality life reinvention, hugely contributed to. 

    I will reveal the transformations I’ve made in my life, especially since finding out I’m asexual in 2014 .

    So grab your FREE ticket here https://www.eventbrite.com/e/blu-talks-2023-oxford-uk-tickets-706357794177 and let’s celebrate bringing asexuality to a more global audience and to the highly prestigious Oxford University. 

    You don’t have to live in the UK to attend this event, the founder of bLU Talks and the Event Manager are flying in from Canada and the speaker David Dodson is from Florida.

    Would love you to come and support me and wave the flag of asexuality – if you have a flag, otherwise, just bring yourself!

    Always Stay ACE.

    Sandra

    The Life and Perspectives of an Asexual – Asexual Best Selling Author Sandra Bellamy Interviewed On Sense Of Soul Podcast

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    I was absolutely delighted to be featured on Shanna Vavra’s Sense of Soul Podcast, which is a spirituality podcast, talking about asexuality and my spiritual life mission regarding asexuality @senseofsoulpodcast

    I was interviewed as best selling author of Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories book –  on Shanna Vavra’s Sense Of Soul Podcast – About The Life and Perspectives of an Asexual on ITunes here https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/sense-of-soul/id1468725665?i=1000630467751 

    GET ASEXUAL PERSPECTIVES 47 ASEXUAL STORIES BOOK HERE https://amzn.to/3PFIrUO

    You can also listen to my interview – The Life and Perspectives of an Asexual, on Shanna Vavra’s YouTube here https://youtu.be/s1X6oN-q2J4?si=kqRloHwpkKfPSQ1U

    And on my own YouTube Asexualise My Asexual Life channel here https://youtu.be/5XMtAwHT4aI?si=dtzYkn_TKjfteLxf

    In this interview me and Shanna:

    * Discuss my personal journey from thinking I was heterosexual for years and having sex, to discovering I’m asexual and I’ve now been sex free for years.

    * Clarify what it means to be asexual, different types of asexuals – including grey asexual and pure asexual, and different types of relationships people might have if they’re asexual.

    * Explore topics covered in my up and coming book: Asexual Guide To Sex book and why I chose to write this book.

    * Why it’s so important to get asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe.

    * Bust through myths of asexuality.

    * And so much more….

    Listen and download the episode here: on ITunes here https://lnkd.in/eRTtJ_iK

    GET ASEXUAL PERSPECTIVES 47 ASEXUAL STORIES BOOK HERE https://amzn.to/3PFIrUO

    Watch an interview highlight here:

    #asexual #asexualise #asexualisemyasexuallife #ace #asexualadvice #asexualhelp #asexualinterview #asexuality #sexeducation #sexED #sexuality #sexualityeducation #sex

    The Life of an Asexual Person – James Miller Lifeology Radio Interviews Sandra Bellamy About What It Means To Be Asexual

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    James Miller interviews Sandra Bellamy

    Have you seen my interview? The Life of an Asexual Person | Sandra Bellamy – on James Miller Lifeology Radio show here https://www.jamesmillerlifeology.com/the-life-of-an-asexual-person/

    Check it out on YouTube – The Life of an Asexual Person is here https://youtu.be/c0WUtPnEoU0?si=_D1hprEl6X_8ZS1i @JamesMillerLifeology or watch the video below.

    On Tuesday 12th Sept 2023, I’ve just been featured in an interview about asexuality with James Miller – Lifeology Radio. This is a dream come true for me, to reach such a huge global audience, in regard to asexuality.

    In this interview James and Sandra:

    * Clarifies what it means to be asexual – Pure asexual vs grey asexual. * Busts through myths about asexuality. * Discusses dating as an asexual person. * Discusses the discrimination asexuals face as a minority sexual orientation. * And so much more….

    James Miller, is the CEO of James Miller | LIFEOLOGY®, LLC and The Executive Producer and Host of LIFEOLOGY® Radio Nationally Broadcast and Syndicated Radio Show www.JamesMillerLifeology.com

    Which is broadcast on/across:

    National Radio Stations

    • 18 AM/FM terrestrial radio stations: Tuesday at 1:30 pm, Friday at 9:30 am, and Saturday at 12:30 pm
      • Washington, DC: FM – 96.7
      • Tampa, FL: AM – 1630, FM – 92.1
      • Las Vegas, NV: AM – 1520, FM – 99.5
      • Macon, GA: AM – 810, FM – 87.9
      • Lancaster, PA: AM – 1640, FM – 102.1
      • Boulder, CO: FM – 96.3
      • Milwaukee, WI: FM – 90.3
      • Pittsburgh, PA: FM – 94.7
      • Long Beach, CA: FM – 101.5
      • New Port Richey, FL: FM – 88.3
      • The Villages, FL: FM – 97.7
      • Colorado Springs, CO: FM – 87.9
      • Jacksonville, FL: FM – 90.3
      • Rocky Hill, NC: FM – 89.5

    Streaming Radio

    Archived on Podcasting Platforms

    Digitally (Under AMFM247 Channel)

    • Roku
    • WorldTV
    • Dish TV
    • Youtube
    • Google TV
    • Other Network Stations Inclusion

    THIS IS HUGE FOR ASEXUALITY

    Asexuality Reaches A Global Audience Of Over 3 Million Listeners

    So far James estimates that the day my interview episode aired, it had an average of 3 million people who heard it on the radio, 200k streaming listeners and podcast/video about 20k – Final numbers will be available at the end of the month. This really helps me to fulfil my life mission of getting asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe, so no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again.

    Check it out James’s channel here https://youtu.be/c0WUtPnEoU0?si=Polr7serOdG3GsqN and be sure to give it a thumbs up if you like it.

    Or check it out on my own cannel here https://youtu.be/1_3kkGbHRcE?si=Xu_IzG4nc_wpWgBs 

    Or listen to it on James’s ITunes channel here: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/james-miller-lifeology-radio/id1190946242?i=1000627920736  James introduces my episode: Sandra Bellamy, an asexual expert teaches you what it means to be an asexual person. www.asexualise.com #SandraBellamy #Asexual #sexuality #LGBTQIA

    You can also see my reaction video here https://www.youtube.com/live/0GP791VeTeA?si=smftPk6kZ_ly9w5m or by watching the video below:

    As always, stay ace, and let me know what you think? Sandra xx

    Amplifying What It Means To Be Asexual In This Highly Sexualised World Whilst Co-presenting For bLU Talks

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    Asexual co-host for bLU Talks

    On June 23rd 2023, I was a guest interviewee on bLU Talks Amplify Your Message show talking about asexuality. If you missed that interview watch it from 2:14:32 here https://www.youtube.com/live/P0WYUCcWQTc?si=aqHbpiCeL0h0jgDx

    On the 10th of August 2023, I was in the opposite position, as a co-presenter with Laura Lake on bLU Talks Amplify Your Message show.

    I got to speak a bit about asexuality when Laura introduced me as a co-host at the start of our live streamed interviews.

    Watch the video below to hear what I had to say to amplify what it means to be asexual in this highly sexualised world.

    bLU Talks stands for business, life, and universe – So this means I’m reaching a more global creative/business audience when talking about asexuality on this show. This helps towards my life mission of getting asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe, so that no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again

    I also mention asexuality a little during some of the interview conversations we had that day.

    As always, stay ACE

    Sandra xx

    Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories Is A Best Seller – Best Selling Asexual Book By Asexual Author Sandra Bellamy

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    Asexual Perspectives Best Seller book

    On 08/08/2023 a long-awaited dream came true for me – I became a best selling author of – Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life, and Sex, ACElebration of Asexual Diversity book – which was first published in Kindle format in January 2017, and the paperback version was published later in July 2017. Get your copy here https://amzn.to/44j4rdq

    It’s been my dream since starting my www.quirkybooks.wordpress.com blog in 2010, way before I started helping asexuals in 2015, to have my own book publishing imprint called Quirky Books and to be a best selling author – I’m pleased to say I’ve now achieved both. But the fact I’ve done it while helping asexuals, puts the icing firmly on the cake and makes it the cherry on the top. Combining my two greatest life passions, writing non-fiction books that change live from pain to gain and helping asexuals – feels incredibly amazing and euphoric.

    I honestly believe I was put on this earth this time around (I think I’ve been here before in a past life) to help asexuals. I believe God/Universe put me here to help asexuals with love, life, confidence, dating and relationships, so you can truly ACE your life, and to fulfil my life mission – of getting asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe, so no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again. Whilever I’m alive I will try my utmost to achieve this, and my books will live on long after I’ve gone – as my lasting legacy to still help save and change lives for future generations to come.

    On 08/08/2023 – Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life, and Sex, ACElebration of Asexual Diversity book hit the Best Seller list in Human Sexuality – #51. This was an incredible achievement, not just for me personally in terms of achieving my dream, but because it was in a highly competitive category to be a best seller in, as most books in it, are traditional-style sex books, so it’s a huge achievement for an asexual book, and therefore asexuality – which is a sexual orientation based on the lack of sexual attraction – in case you’re not asexual, never heard of asexuality before, or confused.

    It took me 7 years to become a registered publisher in the UK under Quirky Books. Which I achieved in 2017, and it was a dream come true for me.

    And now it’s taken 6 years for Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, under that imprint, to become a best seller – as I published that in 2017 and now it’s 2023. So 6 years later I got my dream.

    Yesterday I was updating my social media – and I shared this achievement on my LinkedIn profile…

    And my friend saw it and posted this lovely post and kind words on LinkedIn about my Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories book – they recommended it as a #MustRead

    It’s lovely when someone understands the true purpose and meaning behind your literacy work. Get your copy here https://amzn.to/44j4rdq

    See the post here

    So however long it takes…

    However many sleepless nights…

    Late nights…

    However many years…

    YOU CAN ACHIEVE YOUR DREAMS.

    I’m so thankful to have achieved all these dreams both for me and asexuals / asexuality.

    What’s next for me and asexuality???

    On 23rd October 2023, I’m going to be speaking live at Oxford University for bLU Talks and I’ve already been given a lot of prep I need to do for that. I’m co-authoring a bLU Talks books, the Foreword of which is by Ken Honda from Mind Valley, and I just revised the edits of my chapter a couple of days ago for that. Both of these are inclusive of asexuality. I will be using the chapter I wrote for that book, as my foundation for my Oxford talk, that is called 9 Steps To Reinvent Yourself To Become Your Future Self. It describes how I went from being a deeply lonely, shy, and introverted girl as a child, who was scared to be on social media in 2011 and was shy to talk about sex prior to finding out I’m asexual in 2014 – to what I do now, which is helping asexuals through my www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife channel since 2015, being publicly open about being asexual and about my asexual life – all over social media, and able to talk about sex and masturbation as easily as drinking water. I describe the transformational journey I went on, to become the extroverted, loud, bubbly, talkative person I am today. Without which, I would not be able to give a voice to asexuals and help them. Although my talk is going to be based on my chapter concept in the bLU Talks book – it doesn’t have to be and I can talk about whatever I want – so long as it helps the bLU Talks audience, that is mostly made up of entrepreneurs, creatives, and spiritual people. In case you were wondering, bLU stands for business, life and universe, so the talk needs to be relevant to any of those topics areas and suitable for their audience. They spell bLU with a lower case b for their branding – in case you thought it should be capitalised.

    I also have a virtual stage talk I will be doing for bLU Talks in the future and I’ve completed the first stage of an initial application to a TedX UK event next year, to do a talk about asexuality – the organiser will have a Zoom call with me in January / February 2024, to explain how the process works from that initial application.

    So I still have lots to achieve… and tons more to do.

    Plus, I’m still finishing the final edits of my Asexual Guide To Sex book – a book I’ve been working on for over 4 years now.

    AND…. All of this goes towards achieving my life mission of getting asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe, so no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again.

    I’ve also been given 2 High Five rewards #youtubehighfive by YouTube for my original channel https://www.youtube.com/quirkybooksTV which only has 172 subs as that was my first channel which also goes with my Quirky Books blog and my book publishing imprint, although it’s no longer my main channel, as my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel is, so I haven’t paid much attention to it until I got my first reward – it feels amazing that my hard work is finally being recognised by YouTube, and I’ve been interviewed on top rated podcasts talking about asexuality – more on that in later articles when those interviews go live.

    I got 2 cinema codes from YouTube for FREE VUE cinema tickets. One I used to see Gran Turismo – amazing movie, which I did a movie review of on my Asexualise channel – see the video below, and the second one I will be redeeming before 2nd Of September.

    Feels good to have been making so much progress this year, especially for asexuals and asexuality – as well as my Quirky Books / writing.

    As always, stay ACE

    Sandra xx

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    Whether you decide to buy the books or not, thanks for your continued support – I appreciate it so much xx

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    As always, stay ACE

    Sandra xx