To get the new year off to a great start, for the first time ever, I interviewed someone on my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel about their asexuality and asexual journey…
In this heartfelt episode, Minkey / 5mart2n takes us on a reflective journey through his decade-long exploration of asexuality. From the moment he discovered his orientation in January 2015, at just 21 years old, Minkey / 5mart2n shares the ups and downs of identifying as asexual and aromantic, while remaining open to heteroromantic feelings. It’s a raw conversation about self-discovery, societal expectations, and the importance of embracing one’s true self.
Watch this episode here or click through the video below! And get a copy of Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories book here https://amzn.to/3WpxET0 or from your local Amazon, or any good book store and check out 5mart2n’s full story in chapter 44, which starts on page 405 of the printed edition of the book!
Main Themes: Self-Improvement Over Romance:
Minkey / 5mart2n emphasises that his focus has been more on personal growth than on traditional romantic relationships. He dives into how his intense interests, particularly in gaming and video editing, have fuelled his creativity.
Coming Out and Community Support:
He shares a story about coming out to a cousin through his YouTube channel and highlights the challenges of promoting asexuality in a world that often prioritises sexual narratives.
Navigating Societal Pressures:
Minkey / 5mart2n reflects on his past fears about not being taken seriously and discusses the societal pressures that make it challenging to disclose one’s asexuality, particularly in heteronormative environments. He expresses a desire for greater visibility and acceptance of asexual identities.
Challenging Traditional Expectations:
The conversation takes a critical look at societal expectations around marriage and parenthood. Minkey / 5mart2n shares his firm stance against having children and critiques the institution of marriage, discussing how these traditional norms can be painful and limiting.
Communication and Relationship Dynamics:
He advocates for open communication between sexual and asexual individuals, emphasising the need for mutual understanding in navigating emotional connections versus sexual activity. Minkey / 5mart2n also touches on his introverted nature and the anxieties that accompany social interactions.
Join me and Minkey / 5mart2n for this enlightening episode that celebrates asexuality and the importance of authenticity in our relationships!
Subscribe to my Asexualise channel for Asexual Education 😍 Asexual Information 😍 Asexual Entertainment 😍 Asexual lifestyle vlogs. 😍 And asexual live chat show – join in the live stream and get your questions answered live. 😍 Hit the bell icon so you never miss an episode.
Go here https://www.youtube.com/asexualisemyasexuallife
Whatever you are doing, however you are celebrating, if you do celebrate this festive season, I hope you’re happy and enjoying life.
I know for some asexuals, Christmas is a time of love, laughter, joy and happiness, and I personally love Christmas, but for others it can feel like a lonely experience, and I talked about some asexuals not liking Christmas because they see family members and friends having the type of things that they feel they can’t have as an asexual – which is tough- in a recent live stream I did here https://www.youtube.com/live/wHDB0SvOVzg?si=TfR0TvocuKfxnCYn
I am celebrating Christmas with my parents, since I came to stay with them on Christmas Eve.
This year, not only am I celebrating Christmas, I’m also celebrating life itself – which is the greatest gift ever and an appreciation for things I am grateful for in my life, despite this having been a tough year for me health wise. Hence why it’s been a long time since I wrote a blog post here.
I’m celebrating:
* My dad being alive and with me and my mum for Christmas, after being rushed into hospital in January and as a consequence is on permanent oxygen 24/7 with a diagnosis of COPD.
* Being alive myself. After I had an “immediately dangerous” gas leak last week and had to call the gas emergency services to come to my home to measure the severity of the gas leak and make my home safe.
* I’m thankful that although I broke 2 bones in my back this year, I could still walk and with 8 months of hard work doing painful physio exercises, I’m a lot stronger and got more movement back in my spine – my physio said it can take up to 2 years to get full movement back in my spine.
* Although I currently have a suspected broken toe and I’m waiting for an Xray, I’m grateful that although the new shoe cabinet drawer came off its runners and injured my foot – this being one of the injuries that it caused, it appears only one toe is actually broken – although my big toe was badly bruised and swollen, etc.
So yes, it’s been a tough year, but I try to look at the positive..
* I’m also grateful I’ve got a new home, even though there has always been problems so far, since moving in, on the 5th of November. With a leak that night from the bath, no boiling hot water for 1 month and 11 days and things that were broken and needed repairing or replacing. At least I have a home, with nice neighbours and I’m not facing potential homelessness anymore, as my last landlord was selling that flat.
I realised in life I can look at everything that is going wrong. or I can choose to be grateful for things I do have, and for things not being worse. This song reminds me of that.
Christmas is different for many people who are asexual and in order to spread awareness of asexuality and dive deep into why this is, I recorded this live video here https://www.youtube.com/live/MsuV8niWwac?si=NbfQN3pv1OdxQaYA
Can you relate?
* I’m also celebrating over 1 million organic views on my Asexualise My Asexualise Life channel and I could not have done that without every single one of you who has viewed my channel, subscribed, shared, liked or commented on it. So thank you so much. If you’re not yet subscribed – please consider doing so and hit the bell icon so you never miss an episode, here .
I recorded a special live video celebration the day, we, as a community, went over 1 Million views – 21st of December and bought myself a memorable gift for this – watch this episode here https://www.youtube.com/live/VrUxAmKlii8?si=RTZoGfd3XYe5CR7j
Whatever and however you are celebrating, I want to celebrate you and the wonderful gift of life you are to this world – never forget how ace you are. Sending much love to you right now and always xx and thank you for being part of my ace community, I appreciate that so much and you.
If you feel like sharing what you’ve been up to this Christmas, comment below, or on one of my YouTube posts, or email me asexualise@gmail.com or put it in chat on this site!
Or are you living who you are conditioned into being?
I think it’s so important for people to lean into who they truly are, by listening to your own inner voice, rather than other’s which is trying to drown out your own.
On Wednesday last week, my interview about asexuality with Jennifer Regular on her Awaken And Ascend podcast was published at 11pm BST. And I had asked her for a video clip to put on my own channel, so I could announce when my episode was about to air.
The video clip she chose is all about authenticity and was the central message I wanted her audience to takeaway, that sometimes we are born into being something – in my case heterosexual, when in reality we’re meant to be something else – in my case I was really asexual and didn’t know it – see what I mean by watching the clip here https://youtu.be/Kn_M3KAvL_g?si=tHOuuuufl9nMr5dc or by watching the video below, underneath this text 👇
I would love you to listen to my whole episode about how to be your authentic asexual self, which I did with Jennifer Regular on her Awaken And Ascend podcast.
Central themes are asexuality, authenticity, and how society conditions us into being – when REALLY we can be something different – which is very appropriate for Pride Month – Happy Pride if you celebrate it.
In this interview I share my asexual life journey and how to Be Who You’re Meant To Be Not What You’re Born Into Being.
I talk about:
• An asexual life
• Desiring romance without sex
• The asexual spectrum
• Physical attraction vs. arousal
• Asexual vs. celibate
• Awakening to being different
• Advice from a therapist
• Passionate kissing when you’re asexual
• My asexuality mission
• Discovering yourself and your passion • Living your authentic life
• Building community
• Overcoming societal conditioning
• Standing in your convictions
• Being congruent with what you think and feel
Jennifer Regular, the host of Awaken And Ascend podcast, selects show guests who are transformational specialists that can help others step into a fuller expression of who they are, by sharing their insights, knowledge and wisdom from their own life experience. Her website is here https://lightingthepath.ca/
I feel so honoured to have been chosen as one of those transformational specialists who is living on purpose with helping asexuals, writing books, and always striving to fulfil my asexual life mission of – getting asexuality recognised as an sexual orientation in its own right so no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again.
While not every asexual lives in fear of ridicule and a number are out loud and proud with no fear, there are still others around the globe, who sadly either don’t feel they can come out, or who my be punished in some way by their family, or others, for doing so.
And it’s my mission to help foster global acceptance by spreading the word of asexuality to as many thought-leaders and across as many podcasts and other media outlets as possible, and especially to get heterosexuals to understand asexuality, as they are still the largest sexuality population – and so this is where I feel we can have the most impact on changing lives and the way society views sex, love, and relationships.
A recent live video I did on my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel which was one of the more popular recent live streams I’ve done, was also about authenticity…
Have you ever struggled to be your true authentic self?
Or are you confused about what it means to be your true authentic self and the dangers of not being your true authentic self?
In this live stream episode I started with life lesson 56, from my Bestselling Diary Confessions Of A Hyper-romantic asexual book, which you can get on Amazon here https://amzn.to/4bhxC3Z in fact this hit the bestseller list again yesterday, even though it was a bestseller in April after I published it.
Here is a screenshot from yesterday – Monday 24th June 2024 – bestsellers change hourly.
“Not everyone is going to like you and get on with you and vice versa, and that’s okay, but remaining true to who you are, in spite of what others say, think and do – about you, is important. You can’t be someone you’re not just to please other people. You need to live your life for you. It’s the only way to true success and happiness, and it will take courage and strength to keep you as you, in a world where people are trying to make you conform to their way of being. Stand your ground and keep being you. You’re beautiful just as you are, and not everyone is going to see that – but it’s usually because they can’t be their true authentic self, like you can, and that’s why you bother them the most.”
This is from my Diary Confessions Of A Hyper-romantic Asexual – 78 life lessons to ACE your life – book, so don’t forget to get a copy from Amazon here https://amzn.to/4bhxC3Z
So first of all, what does it mean to be your true authentic self?
As I said in this quote, it means being who you are regardless of what anyone else says, thinks, or does.
Before I helped asexuals, I was actually known as quirky, and I published under my own book publishing imprint of quirky books – which I still do.
I have an embrace your quirky philosophy, which is all about embracing your true authentic self, no matter what anyone else says, thinks, or does.
And this is a philosophy I still abide by and rings true with me to this day.
And being your authentic self is being in your personal power as you and who you are.
With it being pride month, June 2024, it’s a very good opportunity to celebrate all our differences and our uniqueness.
And in order to see our uniqueness, we need to be our authentic self.
It’s being true to who you are, and it’s letting the world see yourself.
Every person’s self is different because we’ve all got different DNA.
We’ve all got different genetic makeup.
We’ve all been raised differently.
We’ve got different environments around us, and so we each bring unique gifts to the table, unique gifts to the world.
When I say gifts, you could think of them as experiences, skills, life lessons, things that have happened to you in your life that you can then use to help other people or help yourself or do both.
Sandra Bellamy is an International Bestselling Author and Publisher, Speaker, Trainer, advisor and coach. She’s most famous for her reality-TV-style chat show and vlog, Asexualise My Asexual Life, which has had over 833,000 views. Educating people about the sexual orientation that is asexuality and inspiring and empowering asexuals to be comfortable and confident as their authentic self, using her own asexual life journey to help others with advice and guidance on love, life, confidence, dating, relationships, self-love and self-care.
For asexual education, information, entertainment and lifestyle videos – subscribe here / asexualisemyasexuallife
If you want to know more about asexuality and the asexual spectrum, and what 47 different asexuals think of love, life and sex from an asexual point of view and if you’re confused about what it really means to be asexual – get all of your questions answered in Sandra’s other bestseller Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life and Sex, ACElebration Of Asexual Diversity, here https://amzn.to/3VAGufr
Have you ever had a vision that came true but not in the way you thought it would? Well, that’s what happened to me…
If this were fiction, it would be unbelievable, but as it’s non-fiction, it’s truly unmissable!
Sandra Bellamy, a self-confessed hyper-romantic asexual, believes she has psychic abilities. Frustrated by her own belief in past lives and convinced she has an Indian soulmate from a past life who she’s been trying to find in this one since 2014, Sandra prays to God for him to show her, her soulmate… But all, is not as it seems…
He loves tragic love stories and unhappy endings, to go with his bad boy persona. She just wanted the guy of her dreams. Little did she know the horror of her vision becoming a reality, when a chance encounter changes the trajectory of her life forever. However far their worlds seem apart, fate has drawn them together, but why?
Join Sandra, for some incredible real-life asexual adventures, with many twists and turns of fate, where asexy attraction becomes climatic kissing passion, sensuality turns into personal power, and self-love takes on a whole new meaning, as she embarks on a journey of self-discovery, uncovering some deep truths, in the form of life lessons that will ACE your life and set you free, to be your authentic self in all your naked soul glory. Where your personal pain is transformed into your personal power, as you shed societal conditioning and literally stop giving a fuck about what people think of you!
If you’ve ever wanted to make your own dreams and fantasies a reality, and get your asexual needs met, Sandra shows you the way, giving a whole new meaning to love, affection, and human connection.
♥️ “This book dives deep into my mind – THE mind – of a hyper-romantic asexual, unlocking the secrets of what truly goes on in my life behind the scenes. Sharing my raw thoughts, feelings, and emotions, during some super tough moments, sad moments, funny moments, OMG moments, but never any dull moments. And all of the fantastic 78 life lessons I learn along the way, I share with you in this book, to help you in your own asexual life. My life is so far out sometimes, that even I think it sounds like fiction – when it’s actual non-fiction fact, with all the drama, the emotional ups and downs, the pains of living a hyper-romantic life, and the joys of being daring enough to make my own dreams a reality, and do things in my life that others could only dream of doing, but never have the courage to try.“ ♥️
Delve into this personal diary book, to be inspired, feel empowered, educated and entertained, in how to overcome asexual struggles, challenges and adversities, and develop a new found resilience and confidence you never knew you’re capable of, to truly ACE your life!
By the time you’ve finished reading my personal diary book, you’ll be equipped with the knowledge and know-how to:
1. Transform your pain into personal power and insights which you can learn from.
2. Overcome difficult and painful situations a lot quicker.
3. Recognise heterosexual and dating red flags.
4. Understand what heterosexual guys say, but actually mean, when what they really want is sex.
5. Understand the effects of childhood trauma, and how to recognise patterns and trauma abuse cycles, so you can stop them.
6. Have sexual pleasure in an asexual way.
7. Recognise, when it’s sensual, romantic, and aesthetic attraction, vs sexual attraction.
8. Be confident in your own body and get your own intimacy and pleasure needs met, in a way that’s right for you.
9. Get your asexual needs met without caring what others think.
10. Help you to see dating, communication, and romance blind spots. So you can sharpen your bullshit detector.
11. Dissect text messages to expose lies.
12. Change your mindset and perceptions to live your best asexual life.
Get #1 Hot New Release And International Best Seller Asexuality Book – Diary Confessions of A Hyper-romantic Asexual – 78 Life Lessons To ACE Your Life before the price goes up.
Amazon.com bestseller in 3 categories – Means I’m and International Best Selling Author and Publisher as I publish books under my own book publishing imprint called Quirky Books.
Wherever you live, it’s available from your nearest Amazon.
As always stay ACE, and thanks for your support.
P.S. If you like this book, please leave an honest written review on Amazon and share some words about what you thought of the book in order for others to make an informed purchasing decision.
So happy to be featured on Empowerography Podcast telling my personal story of how I went from self-loathing to self-loving through entrepreneurship and what inspires me most about thework I do for asexuals and what asexuality actually is.
And if you’ve ever lacked purpose, felt like you don’t belong, or you don’t like yourself or your life – I want you to know I’ve been in that position myself for many, many years, since childhood, and it was tough – is an understatement.
It wasn’t until this moment… that everything changed for me and I went from self-loathing to self-loving…
After watching the video, you may have noticed that in order to self-love, you need to:
Take notice of all the special qualities you have.
How much life experience you have.
How much knowledge you have gained, through work and your life.
How many skills you have gained, through work and your life.
All of which you can use to help others.
Which means you are useful, not useless.
You are worthy of being in life.
You matter.
So think about all of these.
Helping others gives you purpose, meaning, and helps you to heal also. Even if that’s doing some sort of volunteer work – online or offline.
Helping yourself, by seeing your own value and worth, even when you’re not helping others, is important to your own health and wellbeing.
The more you see yourself as you truly are, not what love ones, family, so called friends and society have conditioned you to believe and think you are, the more you can be your true authentic self and love yourself. You can’t love yourself if others have manipulated and brainwashed you into believing you are this, that, and the other… and you can never change and there is something inherently wrong with you – what’s wrong with you, is the lies of unworthiness other people have fed you, and you believe, if you lack self-love. I hope you can begin to see, if you lack self-love, that you are worth loving and being in life.
And if you already love yourself, then I’m super happy for you and I’m glad you’re not dealing with the pain of self-loathing like I used to be, of both my life and myself…
In fact, it was in 2012, that my diagnosis of Fibromyalgia saved me from depression and my first ever business seminar I attended, was the start of my entrepreneurial journey that in turn started my self-love journey… before I found out I’m asexual in 2014…
Once again, this interview helps me with my life mission of getting asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation is its own right throughout the globe, so no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again, and I’m so happy that Brad Walsh gave me this opportunity to empower and inspire his Empowerography audience.
In the main host Ritash’s own words they felt – (Re)energised & inspired by this fantabulous & intimate conversation with Sandra & Hayathi on “Ace”ing Diversity.
I felt very honoured to be introduced as a “celebrity” – see this clip in the video below, or click here https://youtu.be/2iUE4Dm-Ghk
It was one of the most raw, real, authentic, interview discussions I’ve ever had.
“Ace”ing Asexual Diversity, Self-love, Intimacy, Touch Sensitivity, Body Confidence, Non-conformity, covered a wide range of topics:
I was asked about my bestselling Asexual Perspectives book and why I wrote it. – If you haven’t yet got a copy, you can get yours here https://amzn.to/48bZR2C
We talked about Self-love – Including what that looks like and what actions you can take to self-love / self-love more.
Self-worth, body confidence, self-trust, self-respect, being your own cheerleader and best friend and so much more was discussed under “self-love”.
We talked about self-dating and the fact that on Feb 14th 2015 I founded International Celebrate Being Single Day.
We discussed why it’s good to be happy being single, while also being open to a relationship if wanted, and other types of connections.
We talked about being touch sensitive / averse.
We dived into sensual attraction vs sexual attraction.
We discussed arousal and sexual behaviour without sexual attraction.
TODAY is the day – I’m thrilled to be speaking and co-hosting “Ace”ing Diversity, asexuality and queer diversity discussion, on Instagram, Sat 10th Feb, 3pm GMT / 8.30 PM IST.
View someone’s live broadcast on Instagram (Instagram Help)
When someone you follow shares a live broadcast, their profile picture will appear at the top of Feed with a colourful ring around it and the word Live. Tap or click their profile picture to view their live broadcast.
You can watch live broadcasts on the Instagram app or on Instagram.com.
Interact with live broadcasts
Bear in mind that when you start viewing a live broadcast, the person sharing and anyone else who’s viewing may be able to see that you’ve joined. While viewing someone’s live broadcast, you can:
Leave a comment. Tap Comment (Instagram app) or click Add a comment (Instagram.com) in the bottom right and type a comment.
Like a comment. Tap below the comment. The number of likes that a comment receives will appear below it.
Reply to a comment. Tap below the comment and type a reply.
React to the video. Tap in the bottom right and select an emoji.
Share the video. Tap in the bottom right or Share video and select who you want to share it with.
Anyone who’s viewing the live broadcast can see when you like or comment on the video.
So thrilled and proud to be featured on the podcast – AMPLIFY YOU: Ask The Expert: Be Vulnerable And Brave With Your Message An Asexual Journey With Sandra Bellamy.
Once again, this helps to raise awareness of asexuality and bring it to a more global audience that otherwise would never have heard of asexuality. It helps to fulfil my life mission of getting asexuality recognised as a sexual orientation in its own right throughout the globe, so no asexual has to live in fear of ridicule ever again.
An extraordinary story with a powerful message of fostering understanding and breaking down barriers.
Michelle is diving into a conversation with the remarkable Sandra Bellamy, an inspiring figure wearing multiple hats – advisor, author, speaker, coach – Sandra is best known for her YouTube channel, “Asexualise My Asexual Life.”
Sandra shares her journey as a romantic asexual, emphasising the importance of self-love and creating a safe space for her asexual community.
Get ready for an authentic and empowering conversation that transcends labels, as Sandra takes us on a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and the creation of a safe haven for the asexual community.
Join us in celebrating Sandra Bellamy’s impact and commitment to creating a world where no asexual has to live in fear.
Don’t miss:
> The importance of asexual representation and visibility
> Overcoming fear of judgement
> Creating a safe space for asexual community
> Behind the scene with Sandra Bellamy in their content creation
> Sandra’s mission mission is to help asexuals recognise their orientation globally
About Sandra Bellamy:
Sandra Bellamy, aka: The Asexual Entrepreneur, Asexualise, and ACE Fibro Girl, is the Bestselling Author of Asexual Perspectives 47 Asexual Stories, Love, Life and Sex ACElebration of Asexual Diversity; and Fibromyalgia Self-Help Handbook, available from Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Blackwell’s, Walmart and more. Asexual Perspectives is also available from Waterstones. Published under her own publishing imprint; Quirky Books. Changing lives from pain to gain, one book at a time.
She’s also contributed to #1 Best Seller the BOOK of WHY (AND HOW) featuring James Redfield: New York Times Bestselling Author, The Celestine Prophecy. Sandra has co-authored bLU Talks Vol 11 book featuring James and Ken Honda which is a #1 International Bestseller. She is a member of bLU Talks ExPeRts Bureau, and a Speaker for bLU Talks – she spoke at Oxford University for them in October 2023.
Sandra’s most famous for her reality-TV-style chat show and vlog, Asexualise My Asexual Life, which has had over half a million views. Educating people about the sexual orientation that is asexuality and inspiring and empowering asexuals to be comfortable and confident as their authentic self, using her own asexual life journey to help others with advice and guidance on love, life, dating, relationships, self-care.
She was a Speaker at the UK Asexuality Conference in London and has been featured in the Daily Mirror, Daily Star and on the Jeremy Vine Show, BBC Radio with Graham Torrington, Apple, Spotify, Channel 4, BBC TV, Femedic, bLU Talks Amplify Your Message and on a variety of podcasts including Lifeology Radio which has over 3 million listeners per episode.
Asexuality Unveiled – Proud to be featured on Humans of Fuzia, who approached me for an interview, sharing my very personal asexual life story from self-loathing to empowering a global community.
Humans of Fuzia are on a storytelling mission with a particular focus on inspiring and empowering their community of over 5 Million+ Women.
In this article interview, I had to answer questions that were both personal and professional.
Which included:
What was my life like growing up?
What is my initiative and how is it helpful for people? This is about my asexuality mission.
What was my experience of the Covid-19 pandemic?
What has been the response to my venture? To the things I do to help asexuals.
How has my life changed? Since I started to help asexuals.
Who is my support system.
And what change I would like to see in the world, this was my answer:
“I would like the world to accept asexuality and that there are some people who genuinely don’t like, want, or need sex. So we can help prevent sexual abuse situations and make dating and relationships a better experience for all.”
Please give this article a read, Asexuality Unveiled: A Journey From Self-Loathing to Empowering a Global Community, here
Biggest asexuality achievement in 2023 – I was on James Miller Lifeology Radio show with over 3 million listeners per episode – That’s 3 million people hearing about asexuality!
James Miller, is the CEO of James Miller | LIFEOLOGY®, LLC and The Executive Producer and Host of LIFEOLOGY® Radio Nationally Broadcast and Syndicated Radio Show www.JamesMillerLifeology.com
I was so happy to be featured on Shanna Vavra’s Sense of Soul Podcast, which is a spirituality podcast, talking about asexuality and my spiritual life mission regarding that. She’s had over a million downloads of her show episodes, so it’s in the top % of listened to podcasts – which is great coverage for asexuality.
My self-reinvention talk included my personal transformational life journey:
From being a shy, lonely, deeply unhappy, introverted girl,
Who was a suicidal depressed mess,
With no purpose…
Averse to touch by strangers…
With huge social anxiety,
And I could only see people on a one-to-one basis…
To being extroverted, loud, bubbly, talkative –
Discovering my life purpose… (and living it.)
Being all over social media…
….organising and hosting asexual meetups…
Being able to hug strangers…
Being able to talk about sex and masturbation, as easily as drinking water… to help asexuals.
Want to know how I achieved all of these transformations and more?
.. And learn the 9 steps to reinventing yourself, to whatever best future version of yourself you want to become?
#1 International Bestselling Author Sandra Bellamy
My talk was based on my chapter in the new bLU Talks book, of Business Life and The Universe, Vol 11, with James Redfield – Bestselling Author of The Celestine Prophecy, and Ken Honda – from MindValley, who is also the Author of Happy Money, as well as Corey Poirier is That Speaker Guy, Multiple-Time TEDx Speaker, bLU Talks Founder, Co-Author of the Wall Street Journal / USA Today Bestseller, Quitless, Featured in and/or seen on: NBC, ABC, Fox, TEDx, Entrepreneur on Fire, Entrepreneur Magazine, Forbes, Second City, The CW and CBS…
Which became a number 1 international bestseller. See screenshots below:
So now I can say I’m a #1 International Best Selling Author. Get the blueprint to changing your self and your life and become who you truly want to be by buying this book here https://amzn.to/4aO9OWk
And I wrote Diary Confessions Of A Hyper-romantic Asexual – 78 Life Lessons To ACE Your Life – book, which I am currently proofreading again along with my best friend, who fortunately for me, works in editorial as a job, so he is highly skilled and knowledgable to help me. Although with a diary-style book, it’s meant to have minimal editing done to it, be a casual conversational tone and use colloquial language, so I have to be careful not to overdo the editing, and to keep it very conversational, but I still want to make some final corrections.
This book is very different to any other book I’ve written before as it’s a diary-style book of my inner most thoughts, feelings and emotions, during a difficult hyper-romantic time and all the life lessons I learnt along the way. It’s written very informally. It’s like a behind-the-scenes of my Asexualise My Asexual Life channel – which is also a behind-the-scenes of my life, where I share my own asexual life journey, in order to help you in yours. Talking about things such as dating, relationships, self-love and self-care – which this book also focuses on helping you with. So it’s like an extension of my channel content to help you in your own asexual life – more details on this to follow and it will be at a low launch price when it’s first released, so keep your eyes on my next blog posts for updates about that, so you don’t miss out.
I was also interviewed by bLU Talks about asexuality on an episode of bLU Talks Amplify Your Message show which was recorded live – and co-hosted that show once too.
And I was the first keynote speaker at the Be And Become Summit on 14th Of December.
Here is my full talk in case you missed it:
And here is the full playlist with some of the highlights of that talk:
on 31st of December 2023, I was notified that I’ve been recognised among the 2023 – Iconic 100 Impact Ignitors Worldwide ICONS for making a difference. (Thanks to all you who voted for me into this 100 list of icons.)
See the full list of IMPACT IGNITORS here: https://bit.ly/Iconic100ImpactIgnitorOf2023List (I’m included in the special mentions – People who have made special contributions to positive change.)
And last year I was interviewed by Shilpi Gupta Shah, PR & Digital Marketing Associate at Fuzia | Fuzia Talent, and she gave me a mention in one of her recent new year 2024 LinkedIn posts, as one of the remarkable women leaders she interviewed, which felt fabulous.
So please, do yourself a favour, never, ever, give up on your dreams and keep taking action to achieve each one of those. Your future self will thank you for it.
And make sure 2024, is the year you say, “I do” to you:
This website uses cookies to improve your experience. We'll assume you're ok with this, but you can opt-out if you wish.AcceptRead More
Privacy & Cookies Policy
Privacy Overview
This website uses cookies to improve your experience while you navigate through the website. Out of these, the cookies that are categorized as necessary are stored on your browser as they are essential for the working of basic functionalities of the website. We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. These cookies will be stored in your browser only with your consent. You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. But opting out of some of these cookies may affect your browsing experience.
Necessary cookies are absolutely essential for the website to function properly. This category only includes cookies that ensures basic functionalities and security features of the website. These cookies do not store any personal information.
Any cookies that may not be particularly necessary for the website to function and is used specifically to collect user personal data via analytics, ads, other embedded contents are termed as non-necessary cookies. It is mandatory to procure user consent prior to running these cookies on your website.
/ @minkeythefiftyfirst Twitter (X)- https://x.com/MinkeyThe51st Instagram – / theminkey52 
/ theminkey52 DeviantArt – https://www.deviantart.com/5mart2n
below the comment. The number of likes that a comment receives will appear below it.
below the comment and type a reply.
in the bottom right or Share video and select who you want to share it with.
